A young woman in Miami chimes in. Follow up article is her response to advice given after the first article.
Straight Girl Adrift in a Gay Society
February 12, 2014
I am a 26-years-old female and I can identify with everything Wendy's saying.
To start with, it's getting harder and harder to be in a real relationship in the current modern environment. I am not a very modern woman nor do I want to be. I'm terrified of casual sex, drinking until I lose my consciousness, doing drugs, meeting with strangers and I despise competition and revealing clothing.
I moved 11-years ago to Florida, Miami and this is absolutely the worst place to be a woman. I want you to take a hard look at the HIV map of Florida and Miami. We are number one for HIV rates in the whole country. In 2012, 1.2 per cent of the Dade County population was HIV positive.
Coincidentally the number of homosexuals is also high. Apparently any area where gay sex is taking place, diseases rates go up and this also affects straight people.
Women dress provocatively and most men of course do not respect women and do not want anything serious with us. Most women are bi and men that look straight can be secretly bi or secretly gay; it's a surprise box.
Dating and relationships are a joke; my only relationship lasted less than a month and the guy did not even wanted to drive to my house and he was lazy.
Everything is backwards, nobody cares about anything other than money. I have only one friend as a consequence, and suffer in silence because I am not "The money-hungry career bitch" that is required to be successful.
I was teased at my last job for being a virgin, made fun of and discarded. I did not grow up in the United States and my parents expect me to live up to the American dream fantasy.
I don't want to and it causes problems for sure. Disease got me by surprise. I developed a thyroid condition and most recently a heart condition and I don't want to be here no more but I feel it's the same everywhere you go.
The independent women concept is highly strange as we are required to be alone at all times, live alone, dine alone, sleep alone. Don't need anybody; just be super women yet research shows it is unhealthy to live alone. What should I do?
It seems women of my kind are not appreciated anymore and you have to be aggressive to get somewhere but I want to be a lady.
I'm already diseased and don't have the energy and will to do anything about it. I don't care about money or material stuff and many jobs do not satisfy me at all. What should I do?http://henrymakow.com/2014/02/straight-woman-adrift-in-a-gay.html
Reply from "Straight Girl Adrift in Gay Society"
February 15, 2014
I wish people would stop recommending churches and New Age practices when the real problem is not me but Miami. Crime and HIV rates are high; so are assaults and unemployment.
Although I asked for advice, I also wanted to show the effects of HIV infections rates in Florida. When unnatural acts are out of control, I'm made to be the one with the problem and who must adapt to the chaos.
I'm not asking what's wrong with me. I asking you to be honest and know that HIV and other sexual diseases are being spread like wildfire. When my time comes to choose a partner, I'm worried because you never know which past partners were there.
I am not affected by the presence of gay people themselves but the results of their actions. Violence is higher in homosexual couples; so is children abuse by homosexual couples. There's just no denying the statistics here. Children of homosexual parents (LM and GF):
-Are much more likely to have received welfare (IBF 17%; LM 69%; GF 57%)
-Have lower educational attainment
-Report less safety and security in their family of origin
-Report more ongoing "negative impact" from their family of origin
-Are more likely to suffer from depression
-Have been arrested more often
-If they are female, have had more sexual partners--both male and female-Are an astonishing 10 times more likely to have been "touched sexually by a parent or other adult caregiver."
-Are nearly 4 times as likely to have been "physically forced" to have sex against their will
-Are more likely to have "attachment" problems related to the ability to depend on others
-Use marijuana more frequently
-Smoke more frequently
-Watch TV for long periods more frequently
-Plead guilty more often to a non-minor offensesUNNATURAL SEX
Anal sex is very unhealthy. Doctors will tell you that the vagina is very different from the anus and of course not made for sex.
Penetration of the anus by a penis can lead to tearing of rectal tissue, bleeding and infection. Because the anus is full of bacteria, anal intercourse spreads the human papillovirus and can result in anal warts, anal cancer, HIV and other diseases. It can also result in bowel incontinence. When anal sex is combined with oral contact, disease is even more likely. Yet despite these concerns, about 90 percent of male homosexuals participate in anal intercourse. Condoms can offer some protection, but they aren't foolproof. Anal sex is high-risk behavior.
Just as in Wendy's story, many straight men are now influenced by porn and desire anal sex which is also painful and make women despise them sometimes for asking such things.DESPISE NEW AGE
I don't believe in chakras. There's no evidence. In fact, I have grown the despise new age message and its mindgames. Whatever energy is in the body is not color coded like a traffic light with reds, yellows, greens, etc. and bound to malfunction just because someone had a negative thought or choose to see things as they are. If that is true then, so many more people would be sick or dead already. It makes God look like an idiot for creating such system in the first place.
Don't insinuate that I have lack of forgiveness and don't love myself and that's why I got a heart condition. You are the epitome of the classical ignorant selfish teachings to ignore everything that's bringing society down and tell me to just keep my mouth shut, my eyes blind and quote flimsy books that blame the people who are caught up in between. Thanks but NO thanks.
I am done with "gurus," "churches," self-help books after going through all of these and feeling a fool for wasting my time. New Agers always redirect their beliefs to animism (crystal stones, tarot cards eastern mysticism. Never in all my time listening to these beliefs did I hear of God being treated with respect. It's all about manipulating this or that to get what you want, just like old time good old witchcraft.
God is real to me and so are morals and people pay in one way or another for living like animals regardless of whether I sit in the Buddha position and close my eyes pretending it's not there. I like my God served with hard core science and a side of common sense.
To Jackie: I have been numerous times to this church and this man Guillermo Maldonado, left, is a false prophet. He says strange disturbing things that have nothing to do with the Bible or God. He's associated with the g12 movement cult and falling on your back talking gibberish is not how you receive the Holy Spirit. I wish people would stop recommending churches and religions when the real problem is not me but this city. Crime rates are the high, assault, high unemployment.
To Mary: It is hard finding traditional men. I'm glad you did the right thing and moved away. Sooner than later I will have to do the same thing.
To Dan: Actually I get the feeling many men (even straight) despise women in the most liberal places. I have heard their conversations around me where they talk down to women and consider them to be disposable...http://henrymakow.com/2014/02/straight-girl-adrift-replies.html