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« Reply #280 on: November 12, 2015, 07:57:25 AM »
True, there are lots of us out there with families and love it! No need to be critical of marriage and family just because some people are not doing it right.

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« Reply #281 on: November 12, 2015, 08:22:27 AM »
True, there are lots of us out there with families and love it! No need to be critical of marriage and family just because some people are not doing it right.
Edward777---your statement is priceless and truthful  8)...I just pray that younger folks listen to your wisdom!
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« Reply #282 on: November 17, 2015, 10:35:44 AM »
I remember how on some leftist website people (sub-elites, as Alex Jones calls them) were openly saying family is something of the past, and how children should be bred and raised by the state, allowing for supposed genetic improvement of humanity...
"If this is the only way, we have no choice but to proceed. What is there to vacillate about?"

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« Reply #283 on: December 29, 2015, 06:32:11 AM »
I remember how on some leftist website people (sub-elites, as Alex Jones calls them) were openly saying family is something of the past, and how children should be bred and raised by the state, allowing for supposed genetic improvement of humanity...

Ever wonder why lesbianism is being advanced throughout social media, music videos and TV?  First, women couples generally only have 1 or 2 kids.  That fits nicely with the NWO on population reduction. Second, lesbians who get sperm donations obviously are getting impregnated by male donors who are screened for desirable eugenic traits. 

Make sense now?

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« Reply #284 on: December 29, 2015, 06:47:35 AM »
All these libtard concoctions and perversions of groupings not families are just breeding grounds for dysfunctional kids and a prison/welfare state.

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Re: Why American men are avoiding marriage.
« Reply #285 on: January 07, 2016, 05:00:37 PM »
http://news.yahoo.com/women-us-three-times-more-likely-theyre-bisexual-111059128.html
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Among women, 5.5 percent said they are bisexual, compared to two percent of men.
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Identifying as strictly straight, or having feelings of attraction only to members of the opposite sex, was also more common in men (92 percent) than women (81 percent).
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Re: Why American men are avoiding marriage.
« Reply #286 on: January 08, 2016, 12:24:04 PM »
More and more drug addicted babies are being born to hospitals everywhere.  Some are seeing anywhere between a 50% increase to 100% increase in numbers.  Women choosing the lives of crack whores may be yet another factor.

My Fillipina girlfriend is going to be rich beyond her dreams if she can matchs eligible Fillipinas with American men.  New York and Alaska for starters then the rest of America.

The kicker was it was her idea.

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« Reply #287 on: January 08, 2016, 12:35:25 PM »
Tell ya... Book your next vacation in Trinidad and Tobago.  20:1 girl to guy ratio.

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« Reply #288 on: February 23, 2016, 06:46:02 AM »
http://news.yahoo.com/women-us-three-times-more-likely-theyre-bisexual-111059128.html
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Among women, 5.5 percent said they are bisexual, compared to two percent of men.
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Identifying as strictly straight, or having feelings of attraction only to members of the opposite sex, was also more common in men (92 percent) than women (81 percent).

Most women are at least nominally bisexual.  The opinion shapers of society know this and that is why they are pushing lesbian relationships so much -- perfect way to destroy the birthrate.

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« Reply #289 on: April 17, 2016, 08:29:17 AM »
The most basic goal of the left is to destroy traditional concepts of fathers and mothers, then they go after male and female. Once that is accomplished the goal of genocide is far easier to attain, as it is under way in Europe:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yA8fgaBSDUw

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« Reply #290 on: June 25, 2016, 03:21:39 PM »
I think its a problem with both Men and Women.

And who has broken them? The powers-that-be.  A man who sees his duty as protecting his family and making for a better future for them is not easy to manipulate. A woman who is a mother and sees her #1 responsibility to protect her family and instill good values in them is hard to manipulate. 

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« Reply #291 on: June 25, 2016, 07:16:23 PM »
Secularism: no Christianity - no marriage then no kids.
In Muslims there have not that problem.

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« Reply #292 on: July 17, 2016, 10:07:06 AM »
Secularism: no Christianity - no marriage then no kids.
In Muslims there have not that problem.

True, secularism is the virus that is killing western civilization.

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Re: Why American men are avoiding marriage.
« Reply #293 on: July 17, 2016, 01:45:39 PM »
True, secularism is the virus that is killing western civilization.

Globalist Tavistock/MK-Ultra planned Cultural Familial Destruction


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« Reply #294 on: July 20, 2016, 02:17:01 PM »
Globalist Tavistock/MK-Ultra planned Cultural Familial Destruction

True - if you BREAK down the family unit and therefore deprive a man of the #1 reason he will fight (to protect his family)....he is MUCH more easier to manipulate, and become passive.  A rope of three cords is hard to break.....(ie, a man, his wife, and G_D).

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« Reply #295 on: July 20, 2016, 02:52:14 PM »
right  this term came up in the 1960's and was the wedge used to break up families... and also destroy family formation.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Generation_gap
A generation gap or generational gap, is a difference of opinions between one generation and another regarding beliefs, politics, or values. In today's usage, "generation gap" often refers to a perceived gap between younger people and their parents and/or grandparents.
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Tavistock 1960's MK-Ultra:

The sociological theory of a generation gap first came to light in the 1960s, when the younger generation (later known as Baby Boomers) seemed to go against everything their parents had previously believed in terms of music, values, governmental and political views
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Re: Why American men are avoiding marriage.
« Reply #296 on: July 29, 2016, 09:10:39 AM »
You will probably call me sexist, but I think that giving more and more rights to women and children, discourages men to marry.

How ? The man raised his voice when addressed to his wife and "mild struck disobedient child on the butt" becomes a family bully and be stuck in prison. It will only take a divorce. However, there is alimony, his ex-wife decides when father may visit their child and some women go far away to the father not to approach the child to less than 100 meters.


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« Reply #297 on: July 29, 2016, 11:04:02 AM »
You will probably call me sexist, but I think that giving more and more rights to women and children, discourages men to marry.

How ? The man raised his voice when addressed to his wife and "mild struck disobedient child on the butt" becomes a family bully and be stuck in prison. It will only take a divorce. However, there is alimony, his ex-wife decides when father may visit their child and some women go far away to the father not to approach the child to less than 100 meters.

Having the state included as part of the marriage is all what this is about ... There is a Husband a Wife ( or more) and the State as the second husband. The state can nurture marriages or tear them apart . The communists have used this tool for years in there playbook.

http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/1926/07/the-russian-effort-to-abolish-marriage/306295/
The Russian (Soviet) Effort to Abolish Marriage
"Men took to changing wives with the same zest which they displayed in the consumption of the recently restored forty-per-cent vodka"
A Woman Resident in Russia  | July 1926 Issue 

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When the Bolsheviki came into power in 1917 they regarded the family, like every other 'bourgeois' institution, with fierce hatred, and set out with a will to destroy it. 'To clear the family out of the accumulated dust of the ages we had to give it a good shakeup, and we did,' declared Madame Smidovich, a leading Communist and active participant in the recent discussion. So one of the first decrees of the Soviet Government abolished the term 'illegitimate children.' This was done simply by equalizing the legal status of all children, whether born in wedlock or out of it, and now the Soviet Government boasts that Russia is the only country where there are no illegitimate children. The father of a child is forced to contribute to its support, usually paying the mother a third of his salary in the event of a separation, provided she has no other means of livelihood.

At the same time a law was passed which made divorce a matter of a few minutes, to be obtained at the request of either partner in a marriage. Chaos was the result.
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Behold, happy is the man whom God correcteth: therefore despise not thou the chastening of the Almighty: For he maketh sore, and bindeth up: he woundeth, and his hands make whole ; He shall deliver thee in six troubles: yea, in seven there shall no evil touch thee. - Job 5

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« Reply #298 on: July 29, 2016, 11:57:06 AM »
Having the state included as part of the marriage is all what this is about ... There is a Husband a Wife ( or more) and the State as the second husband. The state can nurture marriages or tear them apart . The communists have used this tool for years in there playbook.

http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/1926/07/the-russian-effort-to-abolish-marriage/306295/
The Russian (Soviet) Effort to Abolish Marriage
"Men took to changing wives with the same zest which they displayed in the consumption of the recently restored forty-per-cent vodka"
A Woman Resident in Russia  | July 1926 Issue 

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When the Bolsheviki came into power in 1917 they regarded the family, like every other 'bourgeois' institution, with fierce hatred, and set out with a will to destroy it. 'To clear the family out of the accumulated dust of the ages we had to give it a good shakeup, and we did,' declared Madame Smidovich, a leading Communist and active participant in the recent discussion. So one of the first decrees of the Soviet Government abolished the term 'illegitimate children.' This was done simply by equalizing the legal status of all children, whether born in wedlock or out of it, and now the Soviet Government boasts that Russia is the only country where there are no illegitimate children. The father of a child is forced to contribute to its support, usually paying the mother a third of his salary in the event of a separation, provided she has no other means of livelihood.

At the same time a law was passed which made divorce a matter of a few minutes, to be obtained at the request of either partner in a marriage. Chaos was the result.
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Good lesson from history but that is not a topic.

P.S. After "Stalin" came in power, he stopped policy od destroying family and  marriage between Man and Woman but he did not abolished abortion.   

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Re: Why American men are avoiding marriage.
« Reply #299 on: July 29, 2016, 12:42:47 PM »
Started with the Jacobins in the French revolution...

https://lifetakeslemons.wordpress.com/2011/12/22/divorce-and-the-french-revolution/
Divorce and The French Revolution
 On September 20, 1792, the Legislative Assembly of the French Republic legalized divorce.  This was a first in the country’s history.  Under the Ancien Regime, the unshackling of partners was unthinkable–a move that would potentially crumble the foundation on which the First and Second Estates derived their power.

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Although the Enlightenment initially sparked the divorce debate, it was the French Revolution that succeeded in secularizing family lifePublic institutions sought to invade the very private sentiments of individuals and turn them outward in service of the state.  In the first gasping breaths of the nineteenth century, a backlash developed against this transparency of state and individual, but for 24 years, marriage was viewed as a covenant which could be broken as all secular affairs could be torn down and if desired, rebuilt.  This resulted in 30,000 divorces between 1792 and 1803, the years when the divorce laws remained the most liberal.
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Behold, happy is the man whom God correcteth: therefore despise not thou the chastening of the Almighty: For he maketh sore, and bindeth up: he woundeth, and his hands make whole ; He shall deliver thee in six troubles: yea, in seven there shall no evil touch thee. - Job 5

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Re: Why American men are avoiding marriage.
« Reply #300 on: July 29, 2016, 04:39:18 PM »
"Marriage" as it's defined today is quite different from how it was defined centuries ago. (And, no, I'm not talking about "gay" marriage.)

"For most of Western history, marriage was a private contract between two families. Until the 16th-century, Christian churches accepted the validity of a marriage on the basis of a couple’s declarations. If two people claimed that they had exchanged marital vows—even without witnesses—the Catholic Church accepted that they were validly married[citation needed].

"Some states in the US hold that public cohabitation can be sufficient evidence of a valid marriage. Marriage license application records from government authorities are widely available starting from the mid-19th century. Some are available dating from the 17th century in colonial America.[2] Marriage licenses have been required since 1639 in Massachusetts, with their use gradually expanding to other jurisdictions.[3]"




Keep the above in mind while reading the following:

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https://www.lewrockwell.com/lrc-blog/the-racist-origins-of-government-marriage-in-america/

The Racist Origins of Government Marriage in America

Ryan McMaken
LCR Blog
June 18, 2011

A reader sends along this link, and notes:
    Marriage licenses came about in the late 19th century to prevent mixed-race marriages. That should be appalling to anyone, and is in my opinion the strongest argument to privatize marriage.
The linked article makes many points similar to those I made in my article from Friday. And it notes that:
    The American colonies officially required marriages to be registered, but until the mid-19th century, state supreme courts routinely ruled that public cohabitation was sufficient evidence of a valid marriage. By the later part of that century, however, the United States began to nullify common-law marriages and exert more control over who was allowed to marry.

    By the 1920s, 38 states prohibited whites from marrying blacks, “mulattos,” Japanese, Chinese, Indians, “Mongolians,” “Malays” or Filipinos.
At the heart of it all, predictably, is the urge to control the lives of others. White people might marry black people! Horror of horrors. Therefore, the state must get involved. No doubt these arguments in favor of more government meddling were made with an overlying patina of “freedom.” Just as the modern anti-immigration crowd today argues that we must destroy freedom in order to save it, the old racist proponents of government marriage likely argued that we must abolish freedom in marriage or the “Negro agitatuhs” and their dusky-skinned allies will destroy freedom. Conservative “logic” at its best.

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As I've said many times before in other threads, the State has no more rightful business licensing marriages than it has licensing friendships.

So it might be wise for those on the "conservative" side of this issue to consider more carefully just what kind of marriage they presume they're defending.
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« Reply #301 on: August 01, 2016, 04:01:29 AM »
You will probably call me sexist, but I think that giving more and more rights to women and children, discourages men to marry.

How ? The man raised his voice when addressed to his wife and "mild struck disobedient child on the butt" becomes a family bully and be stuck in prison. It will only take a divorce. However, there is alimony, his ex-wife decides when father may visit their child and some women go far away to the father not to approach the child to less than 100 meters.

Hi Al, I haven't been avoiding this thread, I've been beyond busy here
and haven't hardly even had the time to  check my emails.   I don't
like it when I get so busy, too busy, I can't even log into the forum
here. 

I strongly recommend people live together for a full three (3) years
before entertaining the idea of marriage.  Why?  Because when you live
with someone for 3 solid years, there's a good chance in that time frame
a couple will experience all the ups and downs in a day to day relationship
including job loss, monetary difficulties, irritation from meddling parents
(future in-laws) and a host of other relationship "challenges".

If a relationship survives that 3 years and the couple is still madly
in love with each other and has gone through some thick and thin,
then chances are the "marriage" will last, and endure on a positive path.

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and I see that a lot in society.  You must have been a bad boy
growing up, where your parents had to beat your ass to keep you
in line  ;D   LOL I'm just kidding Al , I need to razz you now and
then, life gets too serious and we all need to lighten it up now and then.

Now to reply to your PM you sent me... 

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« Reply #302 on: October 08, 2016, 05:00:45 PM »
The problem is that people who live together first are no more likely to stay married (in fact less) than those who marry outright. Of course there are variables that must be considered such as religion (those high in religiousity don't tend to live outside of wedlock and are less believing in dicorce than the non-religious).

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« Reply #303 on: January 16, 2017, 10:35:43 AM »
The election of Donald Trump may bring some sanity to this situation. Sure, some feminists will go further left than Swede feminists, but maybe some people only slightly committed to the suicide of the family will re-think it.

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« Reply #304 on: January 16, 2017, 01:15:20 PM »
The election of Donald Trump may bring some sanity to this situation. Sure, some feminists will go further left than Swede feminists, but maybe some people only slightly committed to the suicide of the family will re-think it.
Most young folks, in their 30's, my son and daughter and most of their friends: They DO WANT Family Values back in our Nation: and when Trump takes office, I pray many more of the youth look to the Family as a way of building our Nation back too GOD and Goodness for all...

...the youth are understanding that Values and Morals go Hand in Hand... ;)

...it is better to TIE the knot of Marriage...than to tie a Noose of Lost Love...
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« Reply #305 on: March 12, 2017, 10:16:42 AM »
Most young folks, in their 30's, my son and daughter and most of their friends: They DO WANT Family Values back in our Nation: and when Trump takes office, I pray many more of the youth look to the Family as a way of building our Nation back too GOD and Goodness for all...

...the youth are understanding that Values and Morals go Hand in Hand... ;)

...it is better to TIE the knot of Marriage...than to tie a Noose of Lost Love...


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« Reply #306 on: March 14, 2017, 12:18:03 PM »
Plato recognized the power of leaders showing virtue by example.
Sir; you are Spot On  8)...and this is a Very Serious Issue for our day! No Families---Well then... No Nation!

Parents and Family should lead by The Virtues and Morals in their own lives; and this would show the youth that actions means more than, empty words, with No Good Deeds!

Old Sayin': 'A Truth is only real: When the Word and Deed become ONE!'   ;)
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« Reply #307 on: April 15, 2017, 04:14:47 PM »

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« Reply #308 on: April 19, 2017, 11:34:36 AM »
...Just in case anyone didn't know: there's no such thing as 2nd marriage...
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Re: Why American men are avoiding marriage.
« Reply #309 on: April 19, 2017, 07:02:18 PM »
...Just in case anyone didn't know: there's no such thing as 2nd marriage...

Interesting point, please extrapolate.


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« Reply #310 on: May 26, 2017, 10:15:35 AM »
Interesting point, please extrapolate.

And why not?  I mean many of the prophets in the Bible had two or more wives. It was called polygamy.

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« Reply #311 on: June 02, 2017, 09:59:25 AM »
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And why not?  I mean many of the prophets in the Bible had two or more wives. It was called polygamy.
Even the saints can fall...
"If this is the only way, we have no choice but to proceed. What is there to vacillate about?"

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« Reply #312 on: June 07, 2017, 05:18:15 PM »
This is sickening to me. It's already hard enough to find the right woman. Thankfully in Texas you can separate your assets pretty easily though. No pre-nup required  8)

Still looking... no real women in this concrete jungle  :(  There's nothing I want more than being a husband and father, but it seems as though it's been the most tyrannized identity in America. Seems to me none of the potentials understand pulling together saving up and investing within 5 or 10 years. They all want you to be paying a mortgage or rent or college loan already and then pay for their presence or travel all over hell every six months blowing away their savings or they get offended by free thought. Then they just might legally screw you after the nice version. Down here you gotta watch out for the hispanics especially. You never know if they're Tejano types (good) or Mexican types just looking for a green card and child support. It's insane where I am. No culture, extremely rare to find quality women, and no one even having the thought run across their mind to introduce two people of the opposite sex for reasons that should be obvious to all.

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« Reply #313 on: July 16, 2017, 09:14:55 AM »
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Still looking... no real women in this concrete jungle

Have you thought about online dating services or even going to church?


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« Reply #314 on: July 16, 2017, 06:55:16 PM »
Have you thought about online dating services or even going to church?

Yes. The online thing is filled with extremely attractive brain-washed lefties and single mothers. Very little quality. I found one who seemed to fit very well then she started sending me pictures of her tits.  ::) The churches I've been keeping an eye on, but damn so many of them are in it for the tax-exempt status and teach their people nothing at all but what they want to.

I damn near proposed a year ago to a very sweet Catholic girl who was understanding of my distaste for the pope, but in the end left because I didn't get a certain career.  :-\ Turned around and started another career a couple of months later she knew I had as a back-up plan... no patience. She didn't know a damn thing about the gospel or New Testament though... it's really a sad situation.

Thanks for the ideas. Any more would be greatly appreciated. I really don't think it's so much avoiding marriage as compared to not finding a suitable mate. I have good friends who piss me off when they start talking about women now because of how much they feel they've been screwed over and now only treat them as meat holes. Sorry for the vulgarity, I'm really not like that, but damn these guys are pissed.
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Re: Why American men are avoiding marriage.
« Reply #315 on: July 16, 2017, 11:19:40 PM »
Feminism. It's not attractive. At all.

People like Laci Green are forever destined to be crazy cat ladies. She sees the patriarchy (men) as the enemy, something to be subdued and defeated. Nothing more. Men and women have been objectified. Personnel-->employees-->human resources.

Such “progressive” ideology drummed into young girls and boys over several generations and enforced by activist court systems has managed to destroy western women, men, children, families. This has subdued almost half the population in the US by creating and normalizing mental illness where there was none before. Artificially created friction and wedges between men and women where there was an understood natural order before. It has emasculated men.

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Re: Why American men are avoiding marriage.
« Reply #316 on: July 17, 2017, 11:53:31 AM »
Thank you ... 

I've tried to get married for decades (in California)... and always came to this way to the egress ... because the women involved have their own agendas , Ultimately they don't care about me at all .. Love? What's love got to do with it?
The tptb have created a sociopathic culture with a divide and conquer control matrix.


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Tina Turner What's love got to do with it (lyrics)

Feminism. It's not attractive. At all.

People like Laci Green are forever destined to be crazy cat ladies. She sees the patriarchy (men) as the enemy, something to be subdued and defeated. Nothing more. Men and women have been objectified. Personnel-->employees-->human resources.

Such “progressive” ideology drummed into young girls and boys over several generations and enforced by activist court systems has managed to destroy western women, men, children, families. This has subdued almost half the population in the US by creating and normalizing mental illness where there was none before. Artificially created friction and wedges between men and women where there was an understood natural order before. It has emasculated men.

All

by

design.
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Re: Why American men are avoiding marriage.
« Reply #317 on: July 17, 2017, 01:27:23 PM »
I've tried to get married for decades (in California)... and always came to this way to the egress ... because the women involved have their own agendas , Ultimately they don't care about me at all .. Love? What's love got to do with it? The tptb have created a sociopathic culture with a divide and conquer control matrix.

The "MGTOW" movement is an all-too-predictable byproduct of that sociopathic culture (not that there's anything "sociopathic" about someone merely choosing to "go his own way").

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I'm afraid it's going to get a lot worse before it gets better.

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Re: Why American men are avoiding marriage.
« Reply #318 on: July 17, 2017, 02:12:28 PM »
Thank you ... 

I've tried to get married for decades (in California)... and always came to this way to the egress ... because the women involved have their own agendas , Ultimately they don't care about me at all .. Love? What's love got to do with it?

I was in Cali for a while. Too many players. With some exceptions, the women there were generally shallow and extremely interested in money and physical appearances, particularly the appearance of affluence. What they refuse to realize is that men can see right through this. Men can instantly tell the difference between a “fun” girl that treats relationships as business contracts and a woman that's serious marriage material.

I actually had one that fully understood the red pill/blue pill concept and told me point blank that she was a blue-pill kinda gurl.

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The tptb have created a sociopathic culture with a divide and conquer control matrix.

About half the US population has been conditioned by this culture to think that it's normal. That's what the 2016 election was about. And that's what the current cultural clashes, to the point of violence, are about.

Unfortunately, the scourge of feminism has been carefully coordinated to influence the other four english-speaking nations as well. Bilderburg has praised the ideology as very useful to their agenda. At our expense.
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Re: Why American men are avoiding marriage.
« Reply #319 on: July 23, 2017, 03:17:46 AM »
When men act like women and women act like men?

 what the hell is wrong with the whole mess?

 and why are people not finding the right mate?

Well the answer is in my first statement.  ;)

when men act like men and women act like women: then the whole mess goes away...Simple is it not?
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