Does this make me gay?

[TheWeavingSpider]

I live in an area that has a large homosexual community near by (I live in Eagle Rock, Eureka Springs is full of homos).

Music artists I like are:

Sufjan Stevens (love his music, looks like my cousin "Little James")
The Ting Tings
Sarah Mclachlan
Dido
Shiny Toy Guns
Moby
Gnarls Barkley
Coldplay

I hate heavy metal (I think AC/DC, Korn, Led Zepplin, ect. all suck ballz).

I LOVE Folk, Techno (all techno genres except Lounge), 30's-40's, Soul, Jazz, Pop/Alternative Girl Bands, Film Scores.

I like taking a bath with bath oil beads, bath oils and would only take a bubble bath is them dang bubbles didn't get in my ears, however, I have not done this since I left texas.

I hate sports, with a passion, especially football, I love volley ball, but only if it's sand volley ball.

I don't hunt, I find it useless sense I believe people were'nt made to eat animals, so there is no need to kill another living creature to feed myself, I'm an organic gardener.

I like wearing pinstripe dress shirts with my fancy blue jeans (got them at Wal-Mart, they're just a really nice shade of dark blue with a fade), I wear my polos if I'm not wearing my dress shirts (I have some tshirts but don't wear them a lot).

I like smelling fruity and flowery, I can't stand the way mens cologne smells.

When I was younger and had long hair some people thought I was a girl at first.

I've been kissed more by men than women, but have cuddle more with women than men (I'm from Texas, we're a friendly bunch).

I've never kissed anyone at all, at least not on the lips

I'm a virgin 

I hate women, mostly because of there lack of love for me I have become the monster I am today. I should really not get started on that because that's a really painful part of my life.

My friend Kerri (a really hot chick) says she doesn't think I'm gay or effeminate because of these things, she also says I'm attractive, I don't see how since I weigh 265 and am 5' 10".

I don't think I'm gay, but people act like I am and make fun of me for it and tease me a lot 

The town I work in is full of super homophobes and everyone give me a hard time, that's why I like Eureka Springs, people treat me better there.

So what do you think? I don't think I'm gay or anything, I think I'm straight as an arrow and not afraid to be myself.

 

[TheWeavingSpider]

Do you like legos ?....... There is nothing wrong with being a big kid.

I liked legos up until about 16, after I discovered 3d graphics I started to lose interest in legos.

What do legos have to do with it? Is there some sorta joke that's attached to or an inside joke of some sort?

I always liked building castles with legos and I would pretend I was King Aurthur or Beowulf and save people from dragons or Grendel. 

Oh btw, I'm 24, going to turn 25 this year and have had only one confirmed girlfriend.

[Freeski]

I liked legos up until about 16, after I discovered 3d graphics I started to lose interest in legos.

What do legos have to do with it? Is there some sorta joke that's attached to or an inside joke of some sort?

I always liked building castles with legos and I would pretend I was King Aurthur or Beowulf and save people from dragons or Grendel. 

Hating Led Zeppelin is gay, yes. (Try "All My Love" on In Through The Out Door)

Here's an all-girl band doing it live: pretty nice! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jyuQw6Owpik

[Unintelligable Name]

Uhhh you wrote: "I've cuddled with more women than men."

Are you saying you've couddled with men? That odd... most people would be a bit too afraid of gay shit to do that. Cuddling with a dude is pretty... uhh... I wouldn't call it gay but it's definately not what we normally do. In other countries that stuff is normal, men hold hands, they dance with each other, etc etc.

Taking a bath with oil and whatever has zilch to do with someone's sexuality...

Smelling like a fruit doesn't make you a fruit.

Music, again not related to sexuality.

Hating women, not related to sexuality.

Hating sports, not related to sexuality.

I'll make it really easy for you, if you see a guy and think sexual thoughts, your gay. If you act on those thoughts you're a flamer, or bisexual I suppose...

[PR_L]

He already stated that he was a pervert - he is proud of it! Evil made fair-seeming!

[Unintelligable Name]

Member PR-L has been Banned for troll posting -AD

I think this guy is the one trippin'

[Voskhod3]

You need to move dude.

[Outer Haven]

Do you like legos ?....... There is nothing wrong with being a big kid.

There is nothing wrong with liking LEGO.

[Atomgrad]

I live in an area that has a large homosexual community near by (I live in Eagle Rock, Eureka Springs is full of homos).

Music artists I like are:

Sufjan Stevens (love his music, looks like my cousin "Little James")
The Ting Tings
Sarah Mclachlan
Dido
Shiny Toy Guns
Moby
Gnarls Barkley
Coldplay

I hate heavy metal (I think AC/DC, Korn, Led Zepplin, ect. all suck ballz).

I LOVE Folk, Techno (all techno genres except Lounge), 30's-40's, Soul, Jazz, Pop/Alternative Girl Bands, Film Scores.

I like taking a bath with bath oil beads, bath oils and would only take a bubble bath is them dang bubbles didn't get in my ears, however, I have not done this since I left texas.

I hate sports, with a passion, especially football, I love volley ball, but only if it's sand volley ball.

I don't hunt, I find it useless sense I believe people were'nt made to eat animals, so there is no need to kill another living creature to feed myself, I'm an organic gardener.

I like wearing pinstripe dress shirts with my fancy blue jeans (got them at Wal-Mart, they're just a really nice shade of dark blue with a fade), I wear my polos if I'm not wearing my dress shirts (I have some tshirts but don't wear them a lot).

I like smelling fruity and flowery, I can't stand the way mens cologne smells.

When I was younger and had long hair some people thought I was a girl at first.

I've been kissed more by men than women, but have cuddle more with women than men (I'm from Texas, we're a friendly bunch).

I've never kissed anyone at all, at least not on the lips

I'm a virgin 

I hate women, mostly because of there lack of love for me I have become the monster I am today. I should really not get started on that because that's a really painful part of my life.

My friend Kerri (a really hot chick) says she doesn't think I'm gay or effeminate because of these things, she also says I'm attractive, I don't see how since I weigh 265 and am 5' 10".

I don't think I'm gay, but people act like I am and make fun of me for it and tease me a lot 

The town I work in is full of super homophobes and everyone give me a hard time, that's why I like Eureka Springs, people treat me better there.

So what do you think? I don't think I'm gay or anything, I think I'm straight as an arrow and not afraid to be myself.

 

None of the above does, but...

Ha ha ha, no, but the way you put it sure is 

Seriously though, I agree that homosexuality is a sin, I do believe a lot of it is demonic (I'm speaking from my personal gay experiences here).

Probably does.

 

[phasma]

Surely this is easy to answer for yourself?

Do you fantasize about men . . . or women?

Theres your answer!

[jesqueal]

TWS cut down on your use of plastics to store food & drink

[Boubear]

WeavingSpider, it sounds like you are having an internal battle with yourself!!

Especially this comment: "Seriously though, I agree that homosexuality is a sin, I do believe a lot of it is demonic."

I would suggest, you find some help, there are many ministries that deal only with this, and are set up by those who came out of the lifestyle.

[souldrinker104]

yes, yes it does.

[powderfinger]

www.gay-test.com/

Take the gay test to find out if you are gay and how gay you are.

The Gay Test will decide once and for all whether you'd rather fish for largemouth bass or Lance Bass.

[37]

If you aren't interested in taking an oily bath with Kerri...then you are probably gay.

I want to take a bath with her just based on your word she is hot. 

That's hetero. 

[Atomgrad]

If you aren't interested in taking an oily bath with Kerri...then you are probably gay.

I want to take a bath with her just based on your word she is hot. 

That's hetero. 

 

[kermitthefrayer]

I live in an area that has a large homosexual community near by (I live in Eagle Rock, Eureka Springs is full of homos).

Music artists I like are:

Sufjan Stevens (love his music, looks like my cousin "Little James")
The Ting Tings
Sarah Mclachlan
Dido
Shiny Toy Guns
Moby
Gnarls Barkley
Coldplay

I hate heavy metal (I think AC/DC, Korn, Led Zepplin, ect. all suck ballz).

I LOVE Folk, Techno (all techno genres except Lounge), 30's-40's, Soul, Jazz, Pop/Alternative Girl Bands, Film Scores.

I like taking a bath with bath oil beads, bath oils and would only take a bubble bath is them dang bubbles didn't get in my ears, however, I have not done this since I left texas.

I hate sports, with a passion, especially football, I love volley ball, but only if it's sand volley ball.

I don't hunt, I find it useless sense I believe people were'nt made to eat animals, so there is no need to kill another living creature to feed myself, I'm an organic gardener.

I like wearing pinstripe dress shirts with my fancy blue jeans (got them at Wal-Mart, they're just a really nice shade of dark blue with a fade), I wear my polos if I'm not wearing my dress shirts (I have some tshirts but don't wear them a lot).

I like smelling fruity and flowery, I can't stand the way mens cologne smells.

When I was younger and had long hair some people thought I was a girl at first.

I've been kissed more by men than women, but have cuddle more with women than men (I'm from Texas, we're a friendly bunch).

I've never kissed anyone at all, at least not on the lips

I'm a virgin 

I hate women, mostly because of there lack of love for me I have become the monster I am today. I should really not get started on that because that's a really painful part of my life.

My friend Kerri (a really hot chick) says she doesn't think I'm gay or effeminate because of these things, she also says I'm attractive, I don't see how since I weigh 265 and am 5' 10".

I don't think I'm gay, but people act like I am and make fun of me for it and tease me a lot 

The town I work in is full of super homophobes and everyone give me a hard time, that's why I like Eureka Springs, people treat me better there.

So what do you think? I don't think I'm gay or anything, I think I'm straight as an arrow and not afraid to be myself.

 

The Japanese would call you an herbivore man.

[jesqueal]

The Japanese would call you an herbivore man.

I call 'em "prey"

[Damascus]

If you have no sexual attraction to men then your just metro.

[aLLyOuRbAsE]

who can answer a question like this but yourself?

[netizen_x]

So what do you think? I don't think I'm gay or anything, I think I'm straight as an arrow and not afraid to be myself.

I think the answer is right there. It doesn't really matter what we think. But for what it's worth, I think you are a a gentle soul and also tortured.

Don't hate the women. Be patient, kind and true to yourself. Your loved one will come in due time and not before.

[Voskhod3]

Do you dream of being a fireman?

[TheWeavingSpider]

Do you dream of being a fireman?

No not really, I once dreamed of being a well known cryptozoologist though, I wanted to hunt down the Mokele Membe when I was a kid.

[TheWeavingSpider]

Try growing some facial hair and be a little more outgoing to the opposite sex... I know that if you still live with Mom and Dad they will not take kindly to you trying to look more like a rugged dude so that will be a little more difficult.

Yeah, I like looking nice though, I have facial hair, I look like a rapist if I grow facial hair though (or just a creep in general).

I can't grow very good facial hair because of my native genes though.

[aLLyOuRbAsE]

Yeah, I like looking nice though, I have facial hair, I look like a rapist if I grow facial hair though (or just a creep in general).

I can't grow very good facial hair because of my native genes though.

if thats you in your avatar then i wouldnt worry about it, you look like a funny guy, like my mother always said, if you like yourself other people will too. you should just be happy you have the courage to question yourself, most people go their whole lives without asking themselves anything at all!

[TheWeavingSpider]

if thats you in your avatar then i wouldnt worry about it, you look like a funny guy, like my mother always said, if you like yourself other people will too. you should just be happy you have the courage to question yourself, most people go their whole lives without asking themselves anything at all!

Yeah, but if I start asking myself too many questions and I get replies, it may mean I'm schizophrenic lol.

Yeah most people find me funny, that's how people get to know me at first, as the silly clown, but then they find out how depressed I am and how much pain I'm in and don't hang around me that much anymore.

So unless I find a woman who likes to take care of people I may never find anyone.

[aLLyOuRbAsE]

Yeah, but if I start asking myself too many questions and I get replies, it may mean I'm schizophrenic lol.

Yeah most people find me funny, that's how people get to know me at first, as the silly clown, but then they find out how depressed I am and how much pain I'm in and don't hang around me that much anymore.

So unless I find a woman who likes to take care of people I may never find anyone.

just concentrate on yourself, once you learn to love yourself, others will too.

[Librium]

Your as queer as a 3 dollar bill my friend.

[aLLyOuRbAsE]

Your as queer as a 3 dollar bill my friend.

you are = you're

thanks for the contribution.

[KarnEvil9]

www.gay-test.com/

Nirvana's Reading Festival performance-definitely yes

Damn, I only made 28%. I better get to work!

[Unintelligable Name]

5% gay. It'd be 0 if I hadn't answered the question about shoes, but that was before I realized some questions were just didn't apply at all.

[Librium]

you are = you're

thanks for the contribution.

Oops, sorry

You're as queer as a 3 dollar bill my friend.

[nustada]

Yeah, but if I start asking myself too many questions and I get replies, it may mean I'm schizophrenic lol.

Or it could mean you are in touch with your subconscious, if you can quite you mind, then ask yourself a question, then you should get an answer, not necesarily correct but one in line with your experience. The problem is when you start to think it is someone else than yourself.

Yeah most people find me funny, that's how people get to know me at first, as the silly clown, but then they find out how depressed I am and how much pain I'm in and don't hang around me that much anymore.

Most people who act like clowns do so to hide. One think that might help is wean yourself off all pain, and depression drugs. And start taking vitamine b6 and omega 3 fatty acid.

So unless I find a woman who likes to take care of people I may never find anyone.

The women who have their life together tend to be attracted to men who have their life together, therefore having a woman in your life, will only complicate your problems not solve them. If you find a woman that you love to be around, then that should be your reason, not anything out of material exchange or convenience.

[TheWeavingSpider]

Or it could mean you are in touch with your subconscious, if you can quite you mind, then ask yourself a question, then you should get an answer, not necesarily correct but one in line with your experience. The problem is when you start to think it is someone else than yourself.

Yeah, I was trying to make a joke, part of that "clown" in me I guess.

Most people who act like clowns do so to hide.

I also like making people laugh because at least someone is happy, so I sorta leech off of there happiness, my mind is a very dark place, I've been through a lot of crap and I am not a very strong person, for some people some of the stuff I've been through is a lot easier for them to take, for me, just going through the day without a suicidal thought is an achievement.

One think that might help is wean yourself off all pain, and depression drugs. And start taking vitamine b6 and omega 3 fatty acid.

It very well may help, I'll try it tomorrow night, but tonight, I've been through a lot of physical pain, so I will have to double up my pain medicine, I know it's not good for me, but man, it sure does make me feel good for a little while.

The women who have their life together tend to be attracted to men who have their life together, therefore having a woman in your life, will only complicate your problems not solve them. If you find a woman that you love to be around, then that should be your reason, not anything out of material exchange or convenience.

I don't know many people who truely have there life together, I guess some people have there lives at least somewhat together, but me, well the future is grim, finding a girl that likes what I like and agrees with my fundamentals is pretty much impossible, I don't think there are many "truther" girls out there, most of them (most people actually despite the sex), like being told what to believe, just like they like being told what to where, where to eat and what to believe, those people are the ones that have there live somewhat "together", but as for me, I'm agianst that collectivist and authoritarian mentality, I believe in individualism and nowadays it's pretty hard to find people who are individuals, everyone wants to be what's "hip" in todays culture.

I personally think finding a mate would be great for me right now, however it would be useless because the part of me that requires that I care deeply for someone, the part of me that cares is dead. I know what's right and wrong, but I have no passion for caring for others, I know that's wrong so as a result I pretend to care, I pretend to love, when in reality I can let those people go so easily.

I am dead inside.

[TheWeavingSpider]

17% and I dont have a clue how it came up with this figure and I dont want to know.

You only like getting man-loved in the butt 17% of the time? Lol, j/k

I could not take the quiz, all the questions were loaded and biased, I'd need to take another test that is a bit more truthful.

[nustada]

I don't know many people who truely have there life together, I guess some people have there lives at least somewhat together, but me, well the future is grim, finding a girl that likes what I like and agrees with my fundamentals is pretty much impossible, I don't think there are many "truther" girls out there, most of them (most people actually despite the sex), like being told what to believe, just like they like being told what to where, where to eat and what to believe, those people are the ones that have there live somewhat "together", but as for me, I'm agianst that collectivist and authoritarian mentality, I believe in individualism and nowadays it's pretty hard to find people who are individuals, everyone wants to be what's "hip" in todays culture.

Right, no ones life is perfect. Have you thought about using sites like meetup.com and craigslist.org to join or start a group in your area? The most powerful thing you can do to attract women is to be the leader of a "tribe". It is easier than you think, people are always looking to be told what to do, being a leader is not about bossing people around, but organizing people who are good at different things together.

Everyone, especially women are psychologically wired to be part of a tribe. If there is no truther tribe in your area, you are unlikely to find a truther woman, and you need to create a tribe. If you build it, they will come. Look at what people like Luke Rudkowski has done, for inspiration.

My "cure" for depression.
1. be a leader of a group
2. Weight train for an hour a day (exactly an hour to get the most out of how the body makes and uses growth hormones) and cardio for 45 minutes a day, and rest when you feel like you need it, but no more.
3. take vitamins, my recommendation of the most important for depression are b6 and omega 3.
4. Stop drinking alcohol completely if you have ever drank even when you didn't really want to. Else only drink occasionally.

[vCFy7W3SFb]

I think you just have low testosterone, and is leading to an effeminate lifestyle .

some questions:
do you watch porn ? if so, what genre gets you off ?

people who are overweight (excessive body fat) have a tendancy of having low testosterone anyways. because of their diet they are taking in lots of estrogen sources from the processed foods. since they dont exercise enough either, they testes aren't producing the proper level of testosterone.

maybe you should start working out regularly. you will be amazed by your increase testosterone, you'll feel it like get more aggressive, angry more strong and muscular plus more confidence. pick up a 'REPS!' magazine and start a routine.

[TimeLady]

probably posted here already, but if you have fantasies of having sex with a man and you are a man you are gay or bi

nothing wrong with it

[vCFy7W3SFb]

probably posted here already, but if you have fantasies of having sex with a man and you are a man you are gay or bi

nothing wrong with it

the only things that make you gay is carrying out a gay act; just thinking gay does not make you gay at all.

[TimeLady]

the only things that make you gay is carrying out a gay act; just thinking gay does not make you gay at all.

nope, if you want to have sex with a man you're still gay, you're just not acting on it

but remember, if the internet has taught us nothing it's that it's only gay if balls are touching!